The term “dream life” speaks to everyone differently. A million dollar home, a societally perceived “perfect” body, a vast group of friends, a wealthy significant other, a clean space, a home cooked meal, a warm bed to cozy up in or waking up to a bright sun peeking through the blinds.

If you were to have asked me years ago what my “dream life” would look like, I would have likely listed each of the above examples. After spending the past 6 years fully investing in myself, I can say that those dreams I once had have significantly decreased in value.

My dreams now look like baking fresh goods for a homeless shelter. They look like sleeping in an extra hour. They look like face-timing a loved one when in need of a break from the silence. They look like discovering a new comfort show or hobby. It may even be as simple as indulging on a holiday shaped Reese’s PB cup. These are my dreams nowadays.

This post was sparked by a simple interaction. My mom and I have been discussing Christmas plans for this year, as I cannot wait to spend the holiday in the small town I’ve always known. I opened my notes app and titled it “Christmas Wishlist 2024.” It took me 8 minutes to even type a single word. All I came up with was “white ankle socks.” I don’t need anything. I don’t want anything.

As I nearly reach the age of 23 in one short month, I have come to realize that I just want connection. I want to share and receive love. I want to enjoy moving my body and challenging my mind more. I want to smile in places I’ve cried and feel grounded wherever my feet may land. My dreams have become composed of moments that are often perceived as mundane. Celebrations of people that I love and time spent with myself where I learn, I cry, I laugh and I dream.

Truth is, I am living my dream life. Also, to be fully honest, I had a dream last night that I was in Bora Bora with my hubby, but we all know that’s not realistic. 😉

*Update as of 11/06: My dreams would look even brighter if the correct President won this election. To Women Everywhere… You are the heartbeat of progress. You are seen, valued and unstoppable. Your strength and prowess are changing the world, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Sending hugs to myself and to all of you.

All my love, Grace.